I decided to rush a sorority. I did not know what that meant.
I tend to think:
It meant that Tau Beta Sigma will no longer be the marching band’s service group but instead a sisterhood that I would be privileged enough to be considered a membership candidate and eventually a sister.
It meant that the number five will no longer be the halfway mark between zero and ten and the price of a foot long at subway, but five reasons I love Tau Beta Sigma, five qualities that will make me a better person, and eventually an amazing sister.
It meant that the term “eight factors” will no longer seem like parts of a math problem, but eight ways I see myself improving my life, eight reasons I think Tau Beta Sigma has made a permanent impact on me, and eight reasons that I see every sister as a person with amazing potential and so much love.
It meant that January 27th of 2015 was no longer a regular day on the calendar for me, but instead a day I received an invitation (bid) to change my life. A day I was given the chance to attempt joining on what I now understand is one of the greatest bonds out there.
It means rituals no longer seem like a terrifying word, degrees don’t make me think of temperature, and MC doesn’t mean master of ceremonies.
It meant turtles aren’t just my mother’s favorite animal, pineapples are not just my roommate’s favorite fruit, and eighth note isn’t just a part of music.
It meant that Theta Lambda was no longer two letters in the Greek alphabet, but a place where I call home to my journey in the sisterhood.
So if anyone had to ask me, (a MC whose only been through 2 degrees, been in marching band for one year at a major university, been to the Southeast District Leadership Conference, and have been in the process of becoming a sister for 35 out of the 76 days until initiation.)
I would tell you that TBS, in this small time, has already given me courage (to be myself and to go for what I want), confidence (not only in myself and my actions, but that someone will support me), a musical and sisterly bond with so many people, and that you are making a choice that will forever change your life.
By: Do’Nyal Webb